a) A living is carried out while you are alive. ( 'living' refers to something alive).
b) state your wishes.............
I would wish that I was able to speak for myself.
I would wish someone (my loved ones too) would be there for me, take care of me etc ( and make me not feel the fact that I can't speak for myself ).
Good luck ✅.
you're super free to ask any further questions.
Hope I helped you...lol.