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Somebody tell me if my mother is toxic

She constantly puts me down and doesn't build me up whatsoever
Yet she buys me things but it pains her to do it.
She comments on my weight a lot and It has made me develop an eating disorder
she yells at me when I have a grade less than 70 in math because I apparently need to be perfect. She calls me horrible names a lot and I love her.... But its just painful to live through

User Chrishale
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Answer:

Maybe a little. Or a lot.

Step-by-step explanation:

It could be because she stressed or she just had a tough time in her life. Or she just mean and stuff. How about trying to do something for her and see if she becomes friendlier? Make her breakfast, Get an 100% on a test, Give her a hug, Buy her a gift? Anyway Good Luck!

Hope I could help.

User Rigel Glen
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Yes, that's very toxic .. im lowkey going through the same thing with my mother best thing is to do is ignore her when she's yelling and say yes ma'am and agree... and she shouldn't comment about your weight bc it doesn't matter what's one the outside its what is on the inside that matters... And for your Grades just do your best you got it trust me just take lots of notes and STUDY!... and ofc you're gonna love your mom she you're mother.... And not everything has to be perfect... I bet you're really pretty and smart and intelligent and you can do anything you put your mind to! I hope things get better in your future

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