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Have you ever read or heard about another situation in which a grudge or a dispute was

continued even when the original cause of the dispute was no longer an issue? How might
such a dispute be brought to an end? Write 1 paragraph describing the situation you know and
1 paragraph on how it could be ended.

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This is a personal story about a resentment I had in elementary school. Throughout my educational path, unforgiveness has ruined friendships. At the school, a theatre production was being staged. One of my classmates got the main part in the middle school play, another got a supporting role, and still another got to assist with stage props. The major source of our persistent anger against one another was gossip among our acquaintances. They are criticizing each other behind their backs. They also say hurtful things and disseminate rumors that they are unsure about. I found that learning to let go of a grudge or forgive someone who has mistreated you might be one of the most difficult things to accomplish. However, when we hold grudges and refuse to forgive ourselves, we stay attached to the source of our misery and agony.

If only I had let, go of my resentment, and dealt with it sooner. We may have saved the whole bunch of friends. As soon as I arrived in California, I discovered I had nothing in common with the rest of the group's friends. I have a hazy recollection of a long-ago disagreement. Consequently, the gang was split. Although it is difficult for everyone concerned, more contact among friends has been seen in recent years. It is conceivable that this would have prevented the incident from occurring. What I have discovered is that carrying a grudge just serves to make you feel worse about yourself. It also leads to the loss of friends and other relationships because of a failure to communicate from the outset. The person you refuse to forgive is living in your head for free. That person saps your creative energy, influences your choices, and jeopardizes your connections with others you care about.

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