Opposite sides of a parallelogram are equal therefor we can write:-
3r + 8 = 2r + 12
3r - 2r = 12 - 8
r = 4
so the lengths of the sides are each 20 ft
and the 2 shorter sides are of length 4(4) - 2 = 14 ft
so perimeter = 2*20 + 2*14 = 68 feet <---- answer