Everyone likes when people speak respectly to them. But sometimes relationships can be affected by this, in a worse way. Siblings arguing, they do not bond they are angry with each other and that separtes love.
Telling on a sbibling for their behavior... That splits relationship.
family moments ike going to church or having turkey dinner. family bonds and its for better. usually its a day to enjoy, but not for everyones race/culture
not sure if this is what you mean 100% but i hope this helps