ur gonna half to somehow rethink ur priorities for ur education and career because when u become a parent ofc things r gonna change, for example, u may half to rethink ur working schedule because every day u half to drop ur kid off at school, or maybe soccer practice, or wherever, another way to look at it is that since u now have a kid u half to wake them up, feed them, and change them and that's not something that's easy to do at first because it takes time. hope this helped! :)