Answer:
1. You can use either standard (T-568A or T-568B) - but must keep the standard throughout the installation (can't mix A with B).
The B standard is preferred in the US. A is mostly used overseas (Europe)
For A the proper wiring sequence is:
1 - Orange/White
2 - Orange
3 - Green / White
4 - Blue
5 - Blue / White
6 - Green
7 - Brown / White
8 - Brown
2. Cross over connections use a different pinout for one side of the cable. The second side is wired normally.
Crossover connections are only used for device to device connections. ( as in the case of connecting two NIC cards together directly). They will not work if plugged into a switch or other network device.
Normal side - use the pinout from question #1
Crossover side:
1 Green / White
2 Green
3 Orange / White
4 Brown / White
5 Brown
6 Orange
7 Blue
8 Blue / White
Step-by-step explanation: