Answer:
It varies
Step-by-step explanation:
in my experience, I was outcasted for being a "tryhard", and I gave up on school. I'm behind now, and for what? These people won't affect you in the real world.
I know people who have been through unjust situations, and are trying way harder than I ever would.
They have determination to be better than their situation.
And I know people who KNOW they have to try. They don't know where they're going, but they know they can't just sit around and wait. You've got to do your best :-) And I wish I realized that sooner.
You can't expect great things to happen, if you don't put the effort. Yeah sometimes the world is unfair, but don't rob yourself of that opportunity. The opportunity to be happy.
In the end, you have to help yourself. No matter how challenging it gets. You've got to do what's best for you. And I hope you find the strength to do so. I believe in ya :-)