Your husband/wife went off to war with a group of people, many of whom returned ten
years later. Years go by and your husband/wife still hasn't returned. A group of
men/women who all assume your husband/wife must be dead, start courting you, and
have proposed. You can't support yourself and your son on your own, but you haven't
given up hope that your husband/wife is still alive and will return. What do you do?