Question

Which relational dialectic is causing tension in the following scenario?

John and Jake are identical twins who enjoy most of the same activities and are best friends.
But Jake recently asked their parents if he could have his own room instead of sharing with
John

Answer 1

autonomy-connection

Explanation: Because when siblings share a room they often connect with each other but, when they are around 10-13 they feel to claustrophobic sharing a room because around that age thir brain is growing and they need to be more independent.