Answer: You can't take back the past but you can choose your future. If they have hurt you in the past and you go talk to them then they will think since they have done it that they can do it again. There is nothing wrong with holding a grudge of its protecting yourself. Trust me, if I would have known this when I was in high school my feelings would have been spared. Dont go back, do something better. Read a romantic book or watch a heartwarming movie. choose positive and don't go back to someone who has done you negative. I hope this helps.
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