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how can i figure out what im going to do in the future? i have no clue where my life is going to go or what im going to do.

User Ehsan Sarshar
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This is a question that many of us have and it’s really normal to have. I do not know what age you have but I’m guessing you’re young if you are don’t over stress about it it’s normal for a young person to be confused on what they’re gonna do in the future and how they’re going to do it. I myself when I was younger felt extremely anxious and confused on how I was going to go on with his life after school and it’s extremely normal. Many ways that can help you figure out what you’re gonna do in the future is to join clubs do certifications you can do certifications online if you are more introverted or do them with other groups of people. You can drop shadow family members friends and more and see what they do and how they do it you might become interested in that job. You can watch videos tips or the best thing that I recommend is to just talk about it with someone you trust. When you talk about your feelings with someone and your anxiety about the future this can really truly help you out seeking help for example therapist can also help you with this because this is a really normal thing everyone experiences at least once in their lifetime. If you’re still in school try and take all several kinds of classes even courses you don’t really know about you can take medical Kriminal software development and more to see what you really become interested in. When I was younger I wanted to become a detective I was certain of it. I’ve felt constant anxiety and fear of knowing if that was really what I was going to become and over the years I became interested in other things and I work as a software engineer at home earning over six figures I love my life. There was a point in time in my life where I felt like I wasn’t good enough and that I didn’t have enough time to do something with my life but over the years you’ll learn and you’ll see that you really do have a purpose and there is a job out there or there’s something you’re gonna like and it’s meant for you. Like I said if you’re young don’t over stress it will take a while for you to really figure out but enjoy the time you have right now discover experiment hang out with your friends because when I was younger I did not I lived in constant fear and anxiety that made me not enjoy the times where I didn’t have to worry about the future if you have any more questions please let me know I hope you will be able to figure something out and please remember that it’s normal to not have a clue where your life is going and what you’re going to be doing everything Hass to be done step-by-step and don’t overload yourself because that’s the worst thing you can do at the end of the day the only thing that matters is that you’re alive and happy have a wonderful day and if you have any more questions please let me know and I will be more than happy to answer anything
User Dynite
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you curl up in a corner and cry until you figure out what to do, that's why I do anyway

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