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Lisa and Charlotte are on a first date and are having a "getting to know you" kind of discussion.

According to societal standards, what would be an inappropriate level of self-disclosure at this point in their new relationship?

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Answer: At the beginning of their new relationship the appropriate level of disclosure should be the breadth of disclosure

Step-by-step explanation:

Social penetration theory posits that there are two dimensions to self a disclosure: breadth and depth. Both are crucial in developing a fully intimate relationship.

The range of topics discussed by two individuals is the breadth of disclosure. The degree to which the information revealed is private or personal is the depth of that disclosure. It is easier for breadth to be expanded first in a relationship because of its more accessible features; it consists of outer layers of personality and everyday lives, such as occupations and preferences.

Depth is more difficult to reach, and includes painful memories and more unusual traits that we might hesitate to share with others. We reveal ourselves most thoroughly and discuss the widest range of topics with our spouses and loved ones.

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