Answer:
The 1850s social norm reflected in this excerpt is that women are meant to be objects and trophies, as well as maids to their husbands in order to be approved by society.
Step-by-step explanation:
Women in the 1850s are shown, in this excerpt, as poised, elegant, yet also very motherly and proper. The only reason women existed, in this social norm, was to reproduce and do everything elegantly, from taking care of their children, to looking good.