Answer:
3.085 [m].
Step-by-step explanation:
1) The rule:
m₁*g*l₁=m₂*g*l₂, where m₁ and l₁ - the mass and distance for the small child, m₂ and l₂ - for the big child;
2) according to the condigion l₁+l₂=5, then
3) it is possible to make up the system:

4) finally, l₁=145/47≈3.085 [m].