Answer:
Everything will change eventually wether u like it or not, that is how life is. Im not saying that you will need to let everything go just sum things need to be let go and sum things will stay the same. You need to do what is right for everyone dont just think about yourself but think about them they may be hapier that way and that is what matters.
Explanation: I dont know how you could free yourself from that but i will say that I am here if u need to talk w/ someone
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