The plane you want is parallel to another plane, x - y + z = -5, so they share a normal vector. In this case, it's ⟨1, -1, 1⟩.
The plane must also pass through the point (0, 4, 4) since it contains r(t). Then the equation of the plane is
⟨x, y - 4, z - 4⟩ • ⟨1, -1, 1⟩ = 0
x - (y - 4) + (z - 4) = 0
x - y + z = 0