OK so imagine you're in a cabin trip with a group of friends one friend pose a bottle of liquor out of a backpack I start to pass it your entire group of friends drinks from the bottle before passing it to you begin your dialogue with your friend by assertively refusing to drink you may explain your refusal in anyway that makes the most sense to you and your friend should then respond by trying to persuade you could see you just role-playing until Each of you has had a few opportunities to speak