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What type of marriage do you prefer: love or arranged? Why? Give arguments.​

User Helge
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Answer:

Arrangemnt marrage pros:

People may match better

Higher level of experience of parents

Assurance of social status

Financial security

Cultural similarities of partners

Rational rather than an emotional decision

Family connections are strengthened

Similar ethics

Religious fits

Similar values

People may live in a happy bubble

Avoidance of lovesickness

No stress to find a partner

Cons:

Love is often not a factor

There may be no fit at all between partners

Potential higher divorce rates

Separation may be difficult

Spouses may not trust each other

People may be quite unhappy

Family problems

No room for personal choices

Husband and wife may have no say

May promote gender inequality

People often don’t know what they are getting into

A dating period may be missing in a couple’s life

Emotional stress

Lower life expectancy

Confined level of freedom

Child marriages

Mental issues

Step-by-step explanation:

In my opinion, I choose love over an arrangement. In life I go for happiness and freedom and an arranged marriage can feel forced and closed in. There are many pros and cons but the cons outweigh the pros for me.

Hope this helps, have a good day :)

User Shahzin KS
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Answer: Love

Explanation: The thing is i don't like someone getting me arranged with someone, it would make me overthink a lot! i couldn't win the other one by myself or that it is just based on financial business. But makes it interesting to find how who that person is.

love, you are already aware on that terrain. you know you want to be with that person because of love and no material requirements. starts strong! already know preferences of the other.

User Frank Smith
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