Answer:
I have found that with that extra "dreaming bigger and better" stuff is not really worth it all for the headache that you can get from always striving to meet deadlines and clean the bigger house, and pay the bills you now have because you think you can spend more money. The dream can simply be just staying in a safe place, having a good job that will meet the needs of your family, and you do not need all that extra stuff.
Step-by-step explanation:
We moved across the state my son's senior year so he could play football on a team that wanted him and my Coach husband. He graduated, went to college, and I left the quaint town. People were very different in a small town and either you were from there or you weren't - unless you could take them to the State Champion level.