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It is never okay to say this, in any circumstance, if you are any race other than black. Different generations have had different educations, but that is no excuse. You do not explain to someone how it was "okay back in my day, which makes it okay now". No, it is was and still is never okay. She should take accountability for how it was wrong when she was younger and wrong now, and tell her children with no accomadations, how this is not okay.
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