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Write about a time when your loyalty to one person (friend, family, classmate, etc.) conflicted with your loyalty to another person. How did you resolve this conflict? Do you think you made the right decision? Why or why not?

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I once had this friend, S, and we had been friends with each other for a long time. One summer we had another girl join our friend group, B. I wasn't going to exclude B so I was nice to her and we became good friends. I wasn't spending any less time with S, but she still didn't like that I had a new friend, so she started causing problems. She would start fights with B and accuse her of things she didn't do and she would just attack B for the smallest of reason. We eventually said it was enough and told her that if she didn't stop harassing B we were going to cut her out of our friend group. She didn't stop and that's what we ended up doing. I definitely think we made the right decision and I dont have any regrets. She still acts like a child to this day. She blames the world for her problems and refuses take responsibility for her actions.

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