Question

if a dude likes you and you and him make plans to do something but then he continues to back down what should i do to make him not be afraid that he will hurt me

Answer 1

Depends on the plans and the context of why he’s backing down.

Context here is key.

Answer 2

Get over him

Step-by-step explanation:

If your talking about him physically hurting you and INTENTIONALLY too, get over him. He seems like a pretty toxic guy if this is one of your fears :/

Edit: OMG I DIDN'T READ THIS CORRECTLY, TRY TO COMFORT THE GUY!!!!!!!!! DON'T GET OVER HIM UNLESS HE IS IN FACT TOXIC. SO SORRY!!!!!!