Please help me reassure myself if this is abuse or not
Choking your kid
Punching them in the stomach
busting their lips until its bleeding
making nail marks that create scabs on their throat
Spanking them until their bottoms are black and blue
Emotionally Manipulating them
If all 6 of these are abuse please tell me because my aunt who I have to call mom (Btw she is my guardian) did all of these to me...I'm 13 about to turn 14 in August btw