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Ana and Mirabel have been best friends for almost four years. During their 7th grade year, Mirabel joined the school band and started making new friends. One of Mirabel's new friends, Jeff, used to pick on Ana mercilessly when they were younger. Ana tells Mirabel she is uncomfortable with Jeff and upset that Mirabel is hanging out with him so much. Mirabel tells Ana that she is trying to understand, but everything that happened was a long time ago and all her new friends in the band think that Ana should just get over it. How can Mirabel and Ana work to resolve this conflict? How can Mirabel balance trying to understand Ana's perspective and not alienating her new friends in the band? How might Ana try to relate to Mirabel's desire to empathize with her different friend groups? Why are social groups important and how can joining the band affect Mirabel's mental health and wellness?

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Honestly, I've dealt with this situation many times so here's my answers based on how I would've handled it:

1. How can Mirabel and Ana work to resolve this conflict?

- They can sit down and have a conversation about it. Communication is key in friendships, especially when people who caused issues in the past start coming around again.

2. How can Mirabel balance trying to understand Ana's perspective and not alienating her new friends in the band?

- She can spend an appropriate and EQUAL amount of time with each friend group (outside of practice). For example, she can hang out with Ana on Friday and with her band friends on Saturday. This is keeping the groups separate but equal.

3. How might Ana try to relate to Mirabel's desire to empathize with her different friend groups?

- She can start by forgiving Jeff and understanding that Mirabel is allowed to be friends with whoever she pleases. Just because Mirabel enjoys hanging out with Jeff doesn't mean Ana has to.

4. Why are social groups important and how can joining the band affect Mirabel's mental health and wellness?

- Social groups are important for several reasons. Most people don't like to be alone or feel lonely, so having a friend group can help. Some social groups can be a way to motivate or inspire you to do something new, like volunteering or fitness groups.

- Joining the band will most likely improve Mirabel's mental health and wellness because it will be something that SHE ENJOYS doing. Doing something she loves will definitely boost her serotonin levels, and she'll also be able to make new friends, like Jeff, along the way.

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