Let the first number be x and the second number be y.
Since the sum of the numbers is 70, it follows that the equation that shows the sum of the numbers is:

The difference between the two numbers is 30, hence, the equation that shows the difference is:

The system of equations is:

Make x the subject of the first equation:

Substitute this into the second equation:

The second number is 20.
Substitute y=20 into the equation x=70-y to find x:

Answers:
The equation that shows the sum of the numbers is x+y=70.
The equation that shows the difference between the numbers is x-y=30.
The numbers are x=50 and y=20.