1. Lack of shared experiences: In the society depicted in the novel, memories of pain and suffering are deliberately erased to maintain a stable and controlled community. The Receiver of Memory holds the collective memories of the past, including painful ones. When Jenis becomes the Receiver, he gains access to these memories and realizes that his loved ones have never experienced or understand the depths of pain and emotions that he now knows. This lack of shared experiences creates a barrier between Jenis and his family and friends, making him feel isolated and lonely.
2. Emotional isolation: Jenis' realization highlights the emotional isolation that comes with the role of the Receiver of Memory. As the sole bearer of painful memories, he carries a heavy burden that separates him from the rest of the community. This emotional isolation intensifies Jenis' feelings of loneliness, as he longs for someone who can empathize with and understand the emotional complexity he now carries.
3. The role of the Giver: The Giver, who is the previous Receiver of Memory, plays a crucial role in guiding and mentoring Jenis in his new role. The Giver helps Jenis understand the significance of the memories he receives and the impact they have on his perception of the world. The Giver also shares his own experiences and emotions, providing Jenis with a sense of companionship and understanding. However, the Giver is also burdened with the loneliness that comes from holding the memories of pain and suffering alone, further emphasizing the isolating nature of the role.