Answer: Oh No!
Step-by-step explanation:
It's totally normal for you not to have a narrow list of colleges. I have been doing soooo much college prep, and I barely even have a list of the actual colleges I'm prepping for. Try thinking of what your passionate about, or what you could see yourself doing in the future. With this information check what your list of colleges have available to you, and eliminate based on that. You could also put into consideration the location and financial aspect of each college. That should help you get a good understanding of which colleges would be reasonable for you. And regarding your counselor, there is no reason for her to be putting more pressure on your shoulders, that's literally the opposite of what she's supposed to do. Maybe explain to her that her pushy mannerisms aren't helping you get anywhere. Good Luck!
Hope this helps!