For the three scenarios below, how would you give feedback (positive or negative? person-focused or message-focused? immediate or delayed? low monitoring or high monitoring? supportive or critical?)? Write at least five sentences for EACH one, explaining fully your response and reasoning.
1) A friend - who you like but don't have romantic feelings for - asks you for a date
2) A phone solicitor asks if you want a credit card
3) A colleague at work tells a racist joke