Question

Thinking about issues like references for a job, have you ever had a "friend" who thought you relationship was closer than it was, and it made things awkward? How did you handle it? If not, how do you think you've avoided situations like this?

Answer 1

Do not sugarcoat your feelings. Tell them straight up that you aren't intrested. and do not make excuses. say something like, "i'm sorry, but im just not interested in you in that way. I appriciate you so much and I value our friendship, but i can't like you in the way you want me to."