Question

If you're between the ages of 20-40 and married, could you answer the following questions? This is for a school report, and it is completely anonymous! (I need 2 people to answer! Thanks!)

1) How did you meet?

2) What attracted you to each other?

3) How long did you date?

4) What was a typical date like?

5) When did you decide to get married?

6) Did you live together first?

7) How is married life different than you imagined? How is it similar?

8) Describe each of your roles in the marriage. How did you come to have these roles?

9) What are your biggest arguments about in your marriage?

10) Do you have children? If yes, how many?

11) If yes to the previous, how did you make the decision to have children, and how has having children changed your marriage??

12) Do both of you work?

13) How do you manage work and marriage?

14) If you have any, who takes care of the children while you work?

Answer 1

1) 20 yrs ago over “Chatbox.”

2) personality - Kind, caring, naughty yet lovely, transparent, generous and loving.

3) 3 years

4) Going out to a movie, out for dinner/lunch, and visiting each other's places.

5) got proposed to on the 2nd anniversary of our first meeting, and 3.4 years after the meeting, we got married.

6) No, but I occasionally have sleepovers over the weekends.

7) I thought I would always feel happy with one another with no arguments. Reality is far from the truth, but they still love and respect each other very much and can't imagine life without the other half.

8) Husbands worked away while the wife stayed home to raise the children until recently. The wife started studying to work in different industry than the one she was in before she got married.

9) Nothing significant

10) Yes, two

11) We discussed how many kids we want

12) No, only one arm.

13) having a clear direction on who does what

14) they are teenagers now, so they take care of themselves.