Question

Cotey, who lost his wife three years ago, is living in an assisted living facility. cotey meets sandra at a social event and they start a relationship. they would like to move into the same room together. which best describes this situation?

A. this is an unhealthy expression of sexuality. the staff should deny the request for the patients to stay together and limit their interactions.
B. this is an unhealthy expression of sexuality. the staff should inform the couple that they would be in violation of obra and cannot stay together.
C. this is a healthy expression of sexuality. the staff should allow the patients to move in together as they are protected under obra.
D. this is a healthy expression of sexuality. the staff should require the couple to get married before they are allowed to stay in the same room together.

Answer 1

Cotey and Sandra's situation in the assisted living facility is an example of a healthy expression of sexuality.

Step-by-step explanation:

The question concerns Cotey and Sandra, two individuals residing in an assisted living facility, who wish to move into the same room to live together after starting a relationship. This situation represents a healthy expression of sexuality. Older adults, including those in assisted living facilities, maintain their sexual and relational rights. The OBRA (Omnibus Budget Reconciliation Act) has put protections in place for the respect of residents' rights, which includes the right to sexual expression, so long as it does not interfere with the rights of others. In the context of assisted living facilities, consenting adults should be allowed to share a room if they desire. The accommodation of their relationship is consistent with supporting the personal autonomy and well-being of residents, as long as it aligns with facility policies and the couple's personal care plans.

Throughout history, LGBTQ individuals have faced significant barriers in expressing their sexuality and maintaining relationships, particularly in care settings. With progress in legal recognitions, as exemplified by cases like that of Miguel Braschi and Sharon Kowalski and Karen Thompson, there has been an increased awareness and gradual improvement in the rights accorded to same-sex couples. Therefore, unless there exist clear, legal, or policy reasons specific to the facility that might prevent cohabitation, the staff should facilitate this move. While marriage is not a requirement for such arrangements, policies may vary by location, and the couple should be guided by the staff to understand their options and any potential requirements.