It all depends on what you want to do with that information. We would have to have context to decide if what you did is considered abusive.
Assuming you have been abusive to your partner and want to CHANGE, then you must find out why you abused them in the first place. After you have, communicate with your partner and ask for their forgiveness (if it was your fault). It is between you and your partner to figure out your boundaries and what is okay and isn't. Again, communication is key!! Talk it out with them. If you're genuine then there's no reason this can't be solved :)
Good luck!! Take action!!