When someone thinks they are the boss, their observable behavior can include interrupting others and making decisions without consulting the team, often speaking loudly and using authoritative language.
When making a complaint about a person's behavior, it is important to provide observable behavioral statements that address when, what, and how the behavior occurs. For example, a complaint about someone thinking they are the boss can be converted into an observable statement like this:
- When: During team meetings
- What: Interrupting others and making decisions without consulting the team
- How: Speaking loudly and using authoritative language
By providing specific details about the behavior, it becomes easier to address the issue and find a resolution.