„Hey I know it’s really hard having to go through this and I know it hurts but if you ever need anything please know that you can come talk to me always. I’ll listen to everything you have to say with out any interruptions and I’ll help you get through it. I’m sure moving on is your best option here, they’re in a better place now, alright? So please do your best to stay positive and take care of yourself because I’m sure just doing that would make ‘said loved one’ proud to see that you’re still happy.” Or something I don’t know lol