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It is right to make a decision when you feel the need to defend something you believe in, or when you need to change a situation. This must be done taking into account respect and calm, so that the positioning is effective. In this case, before taking a position it is necessary to analyze the whole situation, promoting the understanding of the points of view until it is necessary to choose one. This should not be done in a hurry and based on emotions, but based on reason.