Question

What do you do when you find the most brilliant, kindest, amazing guy you've ever met, and it turns out you both have feelings for each other but he doesn't want to date anyone? I need real life advice, i've never been good in relationships.

Answer 1

I would say take it slow and don't rush in to things so quickly. Just give it time and ask things like

• How is your day
• Comment and tell him he looks good
• Offer help when he needs it the most
• Start a random conversation with him
• Laugh at his jokes

Step-by-step explanation:

Trust me I have had to go through the same thing but my advice is to

• be brave and worry less even if you feel uncomfortable about it
• Ask questions
• Don't be afraid to change the subject
• Talk about something that y'all have in common

And last but not least don't let the awkward moments take over just go with the flow and take things slow

Hope this helps :)

Answer 2

Take it slow.

Step-by-step explanation:

You need to let him get to know you like he knows himself. Let him adjust to you and don't push him too much. Respect his boundaries and take it slow.