dioynus is usually the 12th. He was a demigod son of Zeus, but since he invented wine he was made a god. Then Hestia, who had formerly been the 12th olympian, gave up her spot as an olympian to prevent conflict. Hades is one of the major gods but was never honored as an olympian.
It will depend on where you look but usually either Dioynus or Hestia will be the 12th olympian