Imagine that you go away to camp for the summer. During your first day at camp, Bart, one of your cabin-mates, chats with you for a bit. Which action would suggest that he has not recognized your needs and feelings?
He asks you where you are from and what sports you like to play.
After this first conversation, he does not speak to you for the rest of the summer.
Because he has been to this summer camp before, he tells you the best places to go.
He asks you if you would like to join him and his friends for dinner.