The appropriate response is looking-glass self.The looking-glass self is a social mental idea made by Charles Horton Cooley in 1902. It expresses that a man's self-becomes out of society's relational associations and the view of others.
Cooley's idea of the looking-glass self expresses that a man's self-becomes out of a man's social collaborations with others. The perspective of ourselves originates from the consideration of individual qualities and impressions of how others see us.