assuming a and b are constants
take derivitive
2x+y+x(dy/dx)+2ay(dy/dx)=0
2x+y=-x(dy/dx)-2ay(dy/dx)

at (1,3) the slope is -5/14




1+6a=14
6a=13
a=13/6
sub back
x^2+xy+(13/6)y^2=b
a point is (1,3)
1+(1)(3)+(13/6)(3)^2=b
1+3+39/2=b
8/2+39/2=b
47/2=b
a=13/6
b=47/2