The first answer for first part is to accept your consequence, to think carefully if the situation is your fault or someone else, and to resolve it as best as you can is the correct way to handle conflict in your life. It is positive method because you are resolving the problem in a good way and the resolving between the people quicker.
The second answer for the second part is the drug abuse actually affect the families and society. The drug abuse can cause the families to disconnect each other relationship, it could also affect their children's behavior and etc. The affection of the society might be that person would be drawn out from their social life, might also lose their job and might lose their biggest chance or etc to redeem themselves.