Having an assertive style of communicating has a lot of benefits. Adopting the assertive style of communicating may let yourself become more expressive, it may also develop your self-confidence and self-esteem, lastly, being an assertive communicator may be the foundation of creating an honest relationship with friends and acquaintances. To further develop one’s assertive communication style, one must learn how to say no more often. Second, he or she must learn to watch and reduce their tone of voice, you should not introduce anger, but one should introduce calmness and resolution. Third, he or she must be willing to find a solution, to be able to discuss and finish problems more easily.