Let the first digit that makes up the father's age be x and the second digit be y, then
x + y = 3(x + y + 1) = 3(x + y) + 3
=> 2(x + y) = -3
=> x + y = -3/2
But x + y cannot be negative,
Thus, we have x + y = 3(x + 1 + y - 9) = 3(x + y - 8) = 3(x + y) - 24
=> 2(x + y) = 24
=> x + y = 12
Thus, the age of the father is 39.