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Guys this isn't a school question more like a life question but I really need help on this one.

I feel like my dad doesn't like me anymore. I mean he likes me sometimes but most of the time he's in a bad mood. Whenever I'm in my parents room they tell me to hang with them for a bit and it always drift off into messed up things ( Like his heart, or how we should help our mom more which we do. ) He's at work most of the time so he doesn't know. We are also in the foster care system and whenever we get a little break from the 24/7 screaming kids my dad always takes my mom out. He leaves my sister and I behind. There was one time when My sister and I got dropped off at the movie theater but that's about it. We never get to do anything as a family anymore... Am I just too spoiled? I do not want to be spoiled... It seems like out family is just broken know. I asked my sister for help but she said I shouldn't be the one asking her the question because she doesn't have a good relationship with him. I know my mom won't understand and my dad I know that he wouldn't understand either. He doesn't take feelings into consideration.... Any advice?

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Try writing a letter to your dad explaining how you feel. Tell a school guidance counselor. Maybe talk to your mom and see if she has any opinions about it. Write about it. Plan a movie night or plan a day for just your family.

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I hope i have given you an idea about what to do. <3

User Mahmoud Alkomy
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Have a family conference and ask for more time together. I think when things get that difficult I usually have everyone sit down and talk about things like that. And ask what I can do to help and do the best I can to do it. I understand that he may not take feelings into consideration though.

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