The correct answer to this open question is "No."
No, Feudal society did not give equal educational and artistic opportunities to men and women alike.
The role of men was totally different than women's role. Indeed, it was a men's society. During the Middle Ages, peasant women were housewives and raised children. On the other hand, noblewomen participated in social events and could own some property. It was very important for noblewomen to give her husband a son.