The answer is "need for inclusion, control, and affection".
Inclusion, sometimes called Involvement, is about the need to have a place. The desire to be perceived, to be a piece of the gathering, is Wanted Inclusion. It could be a work gathering, a book club, a family circle, a games group (or a gathering that watches a specific game), a volunteer gathering, or even an association.
Control, sometimes called Influence, is another interpersonal need that may persuade a person's conduct. The need to lead, impact, give structure, settle on the choices is Expressed Control.
Affection, sometimes called Connection, is around balanced connections and the enthusiastic ties and warm associations between individuals. Needed Affection needs to do with how much warmth and closeness you need seeing someone.