After 2 months Xian and his cousin will have 88 stamps each.
Step-by-step explanation
Suppose, Xian and Kai will have the same number of stamps after
months.
Xian has 64 stamps, and Kai has 72 stamps. Xian's club will send him 12 new stamps per month and Kai's club will send him 8 new stamps per month.
So, the total number of stamps Xian will have after
months
and the total number of stamps kai will have after
months

As, they will have same number of stamps after
months, so...

So, they will have same number of stamps after 2 months.
If
, then....

and

So, each will have 88 stamps after 2 months.