Question

sometimes I feel like a boy but at other times I feel like I'm nothing . I'm confused because while I never felt like a girl even if I was born one; I'm still some what comfortable in being called a girl even if it feels much better to be called a guy. I've also always identified as a lesbian but I recently have been falling in love with my friend whos a guy... please help

Answer 1

It sounds like u are going thru a lot in ur head right now. And that’s ok. There is no hurry to figure out who you want to be in life. You have a lot of time to think about those kinds of things. I’ve been through a similar situation and as I’ve grown older It helps realizing that it’s okay to let yourself feel confused and to let yourself try to discover new things that u may identify with. When I was in middle school I used to think I was asexual, I used to think that I may even be trans or nonbinary. And I even went by gender neutral pronouns for a while. Since I wasn’t worried about having to be able to label myself and stick with it, I realized what I was comfortable with.

Answer 2

I can't help but, Just be who you are, follow your feelings either you fall in love with a guy or a girl. Its called bisexual when you have feelings for both which usually most likely happens to everyone in a moment in their life. If the guy knows you are a lesbian and likes you too then I reckon he has no problem with it. Everything will be ok, and you are AMAZING.

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