as both of them are at their forties which means they are above forty
then: we take an example of 41 and 43
1) the sum of the two ages is =84 then (41+43=84)
2)the product of the two ages is 1763 then (41x43)
41
x43
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123
164
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1763
.: his oldest parent is 43 yrs old